dilema

what would you do if you suspect someone you know is cheating on his/her partner?

contoh kau kenal pasangan ni dah lama. suka la dengan diorang dan harap diorang kekal sampai bila-bila. tapi perlakuan salah seorang dari mereka macam pelik. Pelik as in boleh menimbulkan syak wasangka. bukan sekali dua si partner yg curang ni macam nak kantoi tapi tak kantoi la. Ada pernah tak rasa macam tu. Macam nak kantoi tapi tak kantoi. Contoh macam kau nampak stranger ni berkeliaran menjeling-jeling tepi rumah kau tapi bila dia sedar kau ada dia stop. Macam mencuri tapi takde bukti. Macam kantoi tapi tak kantoi. Macam tu la.

Apa yang kau rasa kau patut lakukan?

1. Bagitau partner dia

tapi kalau bagitau rosaklah satu hubungan tu. lagipun kau bukan sure sangat yang dia curang/menipu. suspect je. cuma takde bukti. kang kalau bagitau rasa bersalah pulak kalau tak de apa-apa kan. Lagipun meningkatkan tahap ketidak-percayaan masing-masing.

2. sound or confront si curang

or suspek curang. tanya dia depan-depan. sebab partner dia adalah lebih kurang orang yang kau sayang jugakla so tak mahulah jadi apa-apa kan. Kau respect dia sebab tu kau taknak dia buat sesuatu yang bakal disesali nanti. tapi kang kena marah or kena maki hamun pulak.

3. siasat lebih / dapatkan bukti

kalau macam ni tak kira macam stalker or invasion of privacy ke wey? Niat dah baik tapi niat tak halalkan cara kan? Tapi kita nak membendung sesuatu yang lebih buruk berlaku. Kalau positive boleh dibendung. kalau dah terlambat langsung nanti kira macam terhantuk baru nak terngadah.

4. biarkan kantoi sendiri dan buat tutup mata

boleh tapi perit sikit. kita pun sedih sebab orang yang kita sayangi dan sanjungi kan. Okey kalau kantoi kompom curang kena tutup mata jugak ke? Biarkan kantoi sendiri? Tapi kan nanti lagi pedih.

Seriously aku dalam dilema. Ini serius. Kalau boleh jawab secara serius juga. Please jangan tanya siapa. Please help.

who am i?

Your personality type:

People-oriented and fun-loving, they make things more fun for others by their enjoyment. Living for the moment, they love new experiences. They dislike theory and impersonal analysis. Interested in serving others. Likely to be the center of attention in social situations. Well-developed common sense and practical ability.

Careers that could fit you include:

Actors, painters, comedians, adult entertainers, sales representatives, teachers?!, counselors, social workers, child care, fashion designers, interior decorators, consultants, photographers, musicians, human resources managers, clerical supervisors, coaches, factory supervisors, food service workers, receptionists, recreation workers, religious educators??, respiratory therapists.

comment comment.

i do live for the moment,coz i dont want to waste my time for something i dont appreciate.

weel,ryu said i do like to be the centre of attention.. hurm.

others,no comment.

confuse of what i gonna do next.

actress? no.

painters? i dont have the talent.

comedians, adult entertainers, sales representatives?? give me a break.

photographers? i dun know..

god,i wish i know what to do with my life.

crying as a way out??

I do hate people cry.

not in a way that cry is illegal in my life.. I do cry.. I’m still a human, and particularly a girl.. it just that I hate people who are CONSTANTLY cry for some silly reason.

call me evil, call me cruel, but I do have no mercy on people who are crying on some stupid, simple thing. aku nek bosan. or I shall say, annoyed. real annoyed. bayangkan,kalo dah dlm seminggu, 3 kali nangis. over some silly thing. mostly about her boyfriend. aarrgghh!! daripada aku kesian, terus jadi menyampah..

I know women do use tears for a way out of problem. some people do find it comforting. they cry when in trouble, cry when they r sad, and even why they are happy. biologically, when we cry, a some kind of hormone are released (not sure what kind of hormone, I think its endocrine, but I’ll check) and makes us feel relieved.. aku tau sume tu,tp aku still xley tgk org nangis.. over some silly reason of course.. menunjukkan yang die masih xmatang.. crying doesn’t solve anything. do something. world doesn’t evolve around u kay?? just grow up! arrgghh!!

imagine going to her room to find her, well almost everytime, crying. mula2 mmg la aku rasa kesian.. she’s still a friend of mine and of course I love her, as a friend. but then, kalo kita nasihat pun mcm msk telinga kiri kuar telinga kanan je,wat pe? niat nk bergumbira, tgk die nangis, terus xde mood. sampaikan aku rasa ilang selera aku. tu dah kira hebat dah tu.. aku jarang xpegi makan. hehe. ok, back to her. die nangis sampai aku tensen.. hebat hebat.

mungkin ada yg rasa jengkel gle dgn perangai n kenyataan aku ni,tp aku nk wat camne.. aku dah mmg camni.. aku pun nangis gak, tp kalo aku nangis, aku akan make sure yg aku sorang2, coz aku xske ble ada org datang kat aku n hug me n say ‘r u alrite?’ aku terharu, yes, mmg tu yg sepatutnya org perlukan tyme seedy kan? tp ntahla, mende tu wat aku rasa cam aku lemah je.. cam aku vunerable sgt.. n I hate feeling that. ntahla.. kalo org yg tol2 rapat dgn aku, aku cam ok g kan.. tp kalo org yg xrapat dgn aku, aku xbrape selesa.. ntah.. aku mmg camni..aku pun xfaham.. thats y aku xske nangs depan org.. weird isn’t? aku rasa aku mmg pelik.

17 signs u already love sumone..

S e v e n t e e n :

You look at their profiles constantly.

S i x t e e n :

When you're on the phone/text with them late at night and they hang up/stop replying, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.

F i f t e e n :

You read their texts and IMs over and over again.

F o u r t e e n :

You walk really slow when you're with them.

T h i r t e e n :

You feel shy, feel great whenever they're around.

E l e v e n :

When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.

T e n :

You smile when you hear their voice.

N i n e :

When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you; you just see him/her.

E i g h t :

You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.

S e v e n :

They're all you think about.

S i x :

You get high just from their scent.

F i v e :

You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.

F o u r :

You would do anything for them, just to see them.

T h r e e :

While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.

T w o :

You were so busy thinking about that person,you didn't notice number twelve was missing.

One :

You just scrolled up to check& are now silently laughing at yourself. :P


haha! sweet nye... korunk rasa,btol x?? hurm.. mostly cam btolla.. tp yg no 6 tu mmg sgt tol.. kat kolej aku ada dak yg pakai perfume mcm my love..

once aku tgh wat keje kat library.. and tat guy knows me,n he wanted to ask me sumthing.. so he came close and.. OMG! he wears the same perfume as my love did.. it really reminds me to my love.. i was like.... really2 high.. haha! bukan high mende2 len k? just,mcm... u know.. just close ur eyes n enjoys the smell u love.. haha~ silly me!

malu plak rasanye.. hahaha!